I recently saw a post on Pinterest that said, “Silence is an answer too.” Think about that a moment…
The childhood lesson taught by mothers everywhere was “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything.” In this case, remaining silent can avoid harsh words that we may regret later. Sometimes there is just nothing that will make a situation better no matter what we say and so silence is the appropriate response.
There are other times when you are mad at someone and give them the “silent treatment.” While you may respond, it is in short quips, often with a dismissive attitude. This scenario is often utilized when we are angry at someone, often a loved one. We ignore and huff off without any words!
On the flip side when you see a friend or family member or maybe even a stranger in distress or possibly crying, a gentle arm around their should without any words can “speak” volumes.
When someone is grieving (possibly a loss of life, a relationship, a job, anything…), just being silently present with them can have a tremendous impact.
Silence really is an answer. Sometimes it is positive and sometimes negative. Often it is the best answer at the moment!
Along you path may you know the times when silence is the best answer!